How would it change things if we saw them all as our children? A friend of mine asked me this this morning. She’s a wise woman, with a kind and strong heart, a foster parent.
What if we really believed in that web of all connection, really treated them all as though they were our own? What would happen if I let my heart break for my kidnapped daughters in Nigeria? For my refugee children in Syrian? For my son, the baby crying in the car-seat while his desperate mother gets high?
I am not talking about giving our hearts over to despair. I wonder if we can train our hearts, intentionally, like athletes who train for a marathon, to bear the load without crumpling under the weight. I think that’s what the children need from us, for us to bear them, bear the stories, hold them as though they were our own, to be prepared to act at any moment for any one of them within our reach. I think the times call for hearts strong enough to be tender, to bleed without weakening, to rage and protect and pray and hope without numbing out.
I don’t think it has to be a choice. We don’t have to choose between the closed heart and the broken heart. We can be awake and yet not despair. It’s worth a try.
1. Good, heart-awakening questions
2. Jim’s good words this morning about filters, about seeing
3. Bright red cardinal in morning sun
4. The flowers my mother has in little bouquets all over their house
5. Breathing. In, out, in out. This moment.
May we walk in Beauty!